Thanks .. got it .. seems to works now.
The missing point was the REQUEST ONLY.
The description is misleading. So Request only checked means it search the host and Not checked means it doesn't search host
I now have
from url: ^/$
to url: www.vital-office.com
skip: www.vital-office.com
this seems to work.
but when I use ^www.vital-office.com$ in skip it does not work.
I do not understand hop regexp. works in redj.
does ^ mean it that this is the starting of the search string or does it mean that redj start search from the very beginning of the url string?

thanks, I checked the request only button and it seems to work.
^/$ to www.vital-office.com with skip www.vital-office.com
Next I added a rule as #1 BEFORE this:
from: index.php/de to www.vital-office.de
.. either don't work or has loop.
I tried also www.vital-office.com/index.php/de and www.vital-office.com/index.php/de
nothing works.
But should according your description it catches the first match only.
so first is /de/ which should take it to vital-office.de (German language)
second to come is /cn/ which should take it to vital-office.cn (Chinese language)
lasz is the global which shall take all the not before defined url pathes to vital-office.com (English language) to avoid double content in SEO.

I think I have a similar problem- RedJ Enterprise 1.7.7 installed in J!3.3.3. I've got the plugin enabled and it's ordered first in the plugin manager. I've created a test Internal (200) Redirect on a URL, but the site acts identically the same as before installing RedJ- no URL changes. I've tried this both with System SEF enabled and disabled. Looking at this support thread makes me wonder if I am supposed to be making some kind of changes to my htaccess file? Thanks!